I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but....there are no girls on the internet.

Follow your heart, just like you said, after all you're a grown man you can make your own decisions in life, and i assume she's a grown woman too, why not drive or fly out to see her?

You're both adults and you can both make it work if it's what you both really want.

What you have sounds pretty special so be sure to hold onto it, give it your all before giving up.

All the best man.

I know how happy you've been since you started talking to her, so do eet. Follow your heart.

Love can be found everywhere and anywhere--doesn't always have to be where you are. :)

In the end, do what makes you happiest.

the girl was a guy and the guy was 2 midgets on top of each other shoulders. i didn't want to break it to you but i had too.

Well if you can make it through the distance it shows that you have a strong relationship and that it will last so go for it.

Ha ha ha, dude, if there's anything that's certain in this life it's that waiting on what you feel when you feel it is a death sentence for those feelings. Common knowledge that I know I've affirmed by experience.

I say: go for it. You'll wallow in the what-ifs otherwise.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that at all. I think your feelings are very real and that it's a wonderful thing. Treat this like a regular close distance relationship, pursue it, don't let people put doubts in your head about the distance. Distance is just that, distance. and real feelings for someone cross any amount of distance. Good luck with it all.

We've never met but we've never been apart

Considering you live in Kansas, what ever state she's in is probably better anyways.

LONG AS SHE HAS XBL SHES A KEEPER LOL

Yeah I've done it before. I know exactly how you feel. Internet borne relationships never worked out for me, but the high rate of failure doesn't mean you shouldn't just not pursue it.

The distance thing I can really relate to though. I'm pretty in love with someone who lives in the south (I'm in NY) and told her when we were last together (physically) that it'd just be too painful to have an ldr, and that we'd not constrict ourselves together yet.

The best thing is if you plan on living close to them in the future. That gives both people in the relationship to have something to look forward to.

Well......... wow!

follow your heart. What's the worst that can happen?

you know, aside from her actually being a 40 year old dude who rapes you gives you herpes...

I say go for it

Long distance relationships CAN work

GAY,Fuck love.She'll take what she wants and then rip your heart out.

I can't believe you're a mod and 23years old. Dude. You're an idiot. I was reading this, and thought it was a bit cheesy. But then when you said "We live states apart. Yes, things aren't always as good as they seem." jesus I nearly puked. Are you telling me you've never had a long distance relationship before? You're supposed to get those out of your system by the time you're like, 14. I've had 3, and they dont work. You can have friends, but it doesn't work if it's anything else. People are different on the phone than in person. That's just life.

Well, My opinion is that it would be cool to like, go to a university that is in her state and once you get out of school (I am saying university cause I saw your age.) go to a bar or some nice place and have a drink together or an ice cream. But this is only my opinion cause I mean, you would move to a different state for a girl? Who knows even if she is playing you? Maybe wants you to marry her and then she takes all your stuff and she leaves you with nothing? Or maybe she is a slut (No offense.) who only wants you for adventures? Who know. But be careful with girls cause they can be dangerous. I would recommend a European if you want to play it say. A Asian if you want to be wealthy. A Hispanc if you do not care for your life. A Emo if you are Emo. A American if you want to get a STD.

Best of luck to you

Advice: Arragne a week trip up to where she lives or vice versa. See how that goes before you play your next move.

Just do what your heart tells you.

It's really admirable that you want to follow your heart.
But it's a far better idea to follow your head.

Use your brain! What good can come from this.
Here are the scenarios.

A) You pursue, and become frustrated because you can't chase quickly or effectively from afar. And you are miserable

B) You pursue, and SHE becomes frustrated because you can't chase quickly or effectively from afar. And She is miserable

C) You cut her off prematurely and always wonder what could have been. You are miserable.

D) You attempt to pursue things long distance and one of you makes a mistake, since your needs are both unmet, that causes the other years of pain

E) You move to wherever she is. You have to expend a good deal of cash and uproot your entire life, in a time when job offers are bleak, just for the chance to make it work. And if it works, you are HAPPY. If it does not, you are miserable.

At this point, you're in too deep.
Time to roll the dice.

Assess the situation.
I recommend either you cut her off now when the pain going to be less.
Or uproot everything and take a chance.

But to pursue her long distance is a mistake, that no good can come from. Because Long distance never works. Relationships require convenience.

That's why our old friend Peri & I never worked out. Even an hour on the train, was too much of a hassle and we both became frustrated with each other.

In whatever you choose to do, Good luck Buddy!

Stop being a mod & get out there! The real world is brilliant, it's something computer games are only trying to mimic.

I mean let's face it, the outdoor life is much better than this website so it's good to spend much less time online & more time offline.

If you really like her you should try ad meet up with her, I know you live states apart but set up in some neutral ground between you too, or just go there.

Oh well, whatever way this turns out, you should know, that im proud of you.

The better she makes you feel now, the worse you'll feel when it's over. ;D

It's a guy.

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PICS. NOW.

You are wasting your time with childish bullshit.